Updated 8/17/23
The word “neurotic”has negative connotations in our culture. At other times, though, neurotic feels endearing. After all, some of our best comedians use neurotic as a badge of honor and find self-deprecating humor in all their many neuroses. Neuroticism is truly one of the most debated personality traits there is.But what does neurotic mean and what personality traits describe a neurotic person? Keep reading to learn more about neuroticism including the definition, common characteristics and behaviors, and more.
The word “neurotic”has negative connotations in our culture. At other times, though, neurotic feels endearing. After all, some of our best comedians use neurotic as a badge of honor and find self-deprecating humor in all their many neuroses. Neuroticism is truly one of the most debated personality traits there is.
But what does neurotic mean and what personality traits describe a neurotic person? Keep reading to learn more about neuroticism including the definition, common characteristics and behaviors, and more.
The Meaning of “Neurotic”
Neuroticism on a spectrum
On the one hand,explainspsychologist and professor Dr. C. George Boeree, people who have an increased level of neurotic tendency are “very nervous” and highly emotional. They may be more likely to develop disorders like “phobias,obsessive thoughts, compulsions, anddepression.” Those with “low neuroticism” would be considered more emotionally stable. Individuals high in neuroticism more often experience dissatisfaction with their lives as they are more prone to negative emotions such as anxiety, depression, and anger.“
Minkyung Chung, MS LMHC
Additionally, neuroticism largely refers to the way people experience negative emotions when faced with stress. As clinical psychologist Kristin Naragon-Gainey, PhD, associate professor of psychology at The University of Buffalosaid: “Two people could be faced with the same situation and the neurotic one will put a negative spin on the experience and produce a stronger reaction to stress — with feelings like sadness, anxiety, fear, hostility, irritability, and anger,” Often, individuals with a neurotic personality trait produce a level of worry or sadness that doesn’t necessarily match the severity of the issue they’re faced with.
How neuroticism is measured
In the most recent version of the Big Five personality assessment, neuroticism is separated into three categories: anxiety, depression, and emotional volatility. Neuroticism scores are largely based on how an individual rates statements within these subcategories; higher ratings suggest a higher degree of neuroticism.
How is Neurosis Different from Neuroticism?The term neurosis originated in the 18th century as a way to label a variety of psychological disorders that couldn’t be traced to a single cause. Though useful at the time, the label has come to be viewed as vague and ill–defined. It was seen as a psychological factor disrupting one’s quality of life, often including obsessive thoughts, anxiety, and other similar symptoms.In 1980, the term “neurosis” was removed from theAmerican Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-III), and most therapists and experts today no longer use the term to diagnose or describe the personality of their clients. Instead, neuroses are now diagnosed as depressive or anxiety disorders.Neurosis is often mistakenly confused with neuroticism, which as described above, is a personality trait that refers to anxiety, negativity, and self-doubt. It is also worth noting that the term “neurotic” has also fallen out of favor in psychological circles to avoid this confusion.
How is Neurosis Different from Neuroticism?
The term neurosis originated in the 18th century as a way to label a variety of psychological disorders that couldn’t be traced to a single cause. Though useful at the time, the label has come to be viewed as vague and ill–defined. It was seen as a psychological factor disrupting one’s quality of life, often including obsessive thoughts, anxiety, and other similar symptoms.
In 1980, the term “neurosis” was removed from theAmerican Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-III), and most therapists and experts today no longer use the term to diagnose or describe the personality of their clients. Instead, neuroses are now diagnosed as depressive or anxiety disorders.
Neurosis is often mistakenly confused with neuroticism, which as described above, is a personality trait that refers to anxiety, negativity, and self-doubt. It is also worth noting that the term “neurotic” has also fallen out of favor in psychological circles to avoid this confusion.
8 Common Personality Traits of a Neurotic PersonHow can you tell if you’re a little more neurotic than the rest of the world? Well, one main difference between someone who simply has neurotic personality traits and someone who has developed psychosis is that even the most highly neurotic person is clearly — maybe even painfully so — aware of this tendency in their personality.Of course, neuroticism looks different for different people, but most people with highly neurotic personality traits share some combination of these defining characteristics, including:A tendency toward mood disorders like anxiety and depressionHyper-awareness andself-consciousness of one’s mistakes and imperfectionsA propensity to dwell onnegative feelings and emotionsAn expectation that the worst outcome in any situation is the one most likely to occurHighly reactive to stress and emotional upsetProne to mood swings and emotional instabilityCompulsive, and may play the same scenario in one’s head over and overProne to hypochondria and panic disorderMay be more likely to adopt maladaptive behaviors, such as self-medication with alcohol, food, or other substances
8 Common Personality Traits of a Neurotic Person
How can you tell if you’re a little more neurotic than the rest of the world? Well, one main difference between someone who simply has neurotic personality traits and someone who has developed psychosis is that even the most highly neurotic person is clearly — maybe even painfully so — aware of this tendency in their personality.
Of course, neuroticism looks different for different people, but most people with highly neurotic personality traits share some combination of these defining characteristics, including:
Is Being Neurotic A Bad Thing?If your neurotic tendency is causing you distress or pushing you toward depression, anxiety, phobias, or addictions you should certainly consider seeking counseling or therapy to help manage your feelings and move toward emotional stability.Therapy can help you effectively manage stress and anxiety, which may help you prevent neurotic behavior.But remember, being “neurotic” is not a medical condition or even a diagnosable mood disorder. It is a personality trait and a state of being that some of us tend to have more of than others. Living with a higher dose of neuroticism than most people can be challenging due to the negative emotions you may feel on a regular basis. However, therapy modalities likeonline cognitive behavioral therapy(CBT) have been helpful for people who feel that their neurotic traits are taking over.
Is Being Neurotic A Bad Thing?
If your neurotic tendency is causing you distress or pushing you toward depression, anxiety, phobias, or addictions you should certainly consider seeking counseling or therapy to help manage your feelings and move toward emotional stability.Therapy can help you effectively manage stress and anxiety, which may help you prevent neurotic behavior.
But remember, being “neurotic” is not a medical condition or even a diagnosable mood disorder. It is a personality trait and a state of being that some of us tend to have more of than others. Living with a higher dose of neuroticism than most people can be challenging due to the negative emotions you may feel on a regular basis. However, therapy modalities likeonline cognitive behavioral therapy(CBT) have been helpful for people who feel that their neurotic traits are taking over.
The Bright Side of Being NeuroticFrom the examples provided, it might seem likeneurotic behavioris wholly negative, but rest assured that having a small and manageable amount of neuroticism in your life can actually be a good thing.“It’s important to find ways to redefine an individual’s particular neurotic behavior from something that is stigmatized as negative, to something that can be a benefit for them. Helping this process allows for individuals to gain more confidence in the specific tendencies and accept that this is part of who they are, BUT it doesn’t define them completely. There’s nothing wrong with being different.”Minkyung Chung, MS, LMHCRumination may lead to strong attention to detailAs Daniel Nettle, who wrote the bookPersonality: What Makes You the Way You Are,explains, neurotic people are “strivers” and tend to have an inner, self-directed drive to succeed. In addition, the tendency toward “rumination” that is often wrapped up in neuroses can be an asset if you are working in a detail-oriented job or one that requires in-depth thinking and analysis.Stress managementNeurotic people can also be healthier than others, especially if theyhave conscientiousnessas well.Nicholas A. Turiano Ph.D., a postdoctoral fellow in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Rochester Medical Center, says that these individuals “have fewer chronic health conditions, they have healthier body weights, and they have lower levels of inflammation.” Healthy neurotics are also better equipped to deal with stressful situations. As Turiano says “The healthy neurotic individuals somehow find a way to channel that anxiety they have to motivate them to do good work,” Turiano says.Emotional depthAdditionally, since neurotic people are more prone tonegative feelings, Dr. Naragon-Gainey argues that they can also possess more emotional depth, “They have more experience handling negative emotions, which, though difficult, can also make them deeper, and facilitate empathy and understanding for other people’s struggles,” she explained.More cautious of risky situationsFinally, neurotic personalities may also have had evolutionary advantages, as explained in a paper published inEvolution and Human Behavior. While people who are neurotic may be more likely to exhibit signs of depression and anxiety, they are traditionally “more risk-averse and vigilant concerning environmental dangers,” which certainly may have helped our “neurotic” ancestors survive adversity.
The Bright Side of Being Neurotic
From the examples provided, it might seem likeneurotic behavioris wholly negative, but rest assured that having a small and manageable amount of neuroticism in your life can actually be a good thing.
“It’s important to find ways to redefine an individual’s particular neurotic behavior from something that is stigmatized as negative, to something that can be a benefit for them. Helping this process allows for individuals to gain more confidence in the specific tendencies and accept that this is part of who they are, BUT it doesn’t define them completely. There’s nothing wrong with being different.”
Minkyung Chung, MS, LMHC
Rumination may lead to strong attention to detail
As Daniel Nettle, who wrote the bookPersonality: What Makes You the Way You Are,explains, neurotic people are “strivers” and tend to have an inner, self-directed drive to succeed. In addition, the tendency toward “rumination” that is often wrapped up in neuroses can be an asset if you are working in a detail-oriented job or one that requires in-depth thinking and analysis.
Stress management
Neurotic people can also be healthier than others, especially if theyhave conscientiousnessas well.Nicholas A. Turiano Ph.D., a postdoctoral fellow in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Rochester Medical Center, says that these individuals “have fewer chronic health conditions, they have healthier body weights, and they have lower levels of inflammation.” Healthy neurotics are also better equipped to deal with stressful situations. As Turiano says “The healthy neurotic individuals somehow find a way to channel that anxiety they have to motivate them to do good work,” Turiano says.
Emotional depth
Additionally, since neurotic people are more prone tonegative feelings, Dr. Naragon-Gainey argues that they can also possess more emotional depth, “They have more experience handling negative emotions, which, though difficult, can also make them deeper, and facilitate empathy and understanding for other people’s struggles,” she explained.
More cautious of risky situations
Finally, neurotic personalities may also have had evolutionary advantages, as explained in a paper published inEvolution and Human Behavior. While people who are neurotic may be more likely to exhibit signs of depression and anxiety, they are traditionally “more risk-averse and vigilant concerning environmental dangers,” which certainly may have helped our “neurotic” ancestors survive adversity.
Don’t Be Ashamed of NeuroticismIt’s no fun when your neurotic tendencies take over and make you miserable, but being high on neuroticism is nothing to be ashamed of. Some even take it as a compliment; many of the most creative and successful people out there tend to be on the neurotic side of things. It’s all a matter of keeping your neuroticism in perspective, using it to your advantage, seeking help if it gets out of hand, and making sure to maintain a healthy sense of humor about it all. It is also worth noting that personality traits have been shown to bemalleable; they can change with time and often shift with major life events such as moving, getting married, or having a child. Nothing is set in stone.If you’re looking for ways to become less neurotic, try exercising for at least thirty minutes a day, engaging in mindfulness, reframing your thoughts, and doing deep-breathing exercises. These techniques can help limit spiraling, negative thoughts and ground you in the present. By participating in prosocial activities such as volunteer work, you can also foster a sense of gratitude, avoid pessimistic ruminations, and increase personal satisfaction.The takeawayBeing a bit higher on the neuroticism scale than others is perfectly fine — think of all the wonderfully neurotic comics who make us laugh — and might even be a good thing. Be proud and confident of your personality traits, even as you’re on the lookout for negative impacts on behavior. If you feel like aspects of your personality are hard to live with, hindering your daily life, or are becoming frustrating, meeting with a therapist can help. Whether you choose in-person, oronline therapy, a licensed therapist can work with you to distinguish problematic behavioral patterns and provide actionable ways you can work on better navigating challenges and problematic thoughts.
Don’t Be Ashamed of Neuroticism
It’s no fun when your neurotic tendencies take over and make you miserable, but being high on neuroticism is nothing to be ashamed of. Some even take it as a compliment; many of the most creative and successful people out there tend to be on the neurotic side of things. It’s all a matter of keeping your neuroticism in perspective, using it to your advantage, seeking help if it gets out of hand, and making sure to maintain a healthy sense of humor about it all. It is also worth noting that personality traits have been shown to bemalleable; they can change with time and often shift with major life events such as moving, getting married, or having a child. Nothing is set in stone.
If you’re looking for ways to become less neurotic, try exercising for at least thirty minutes a day, engaging in mindfulness, reframing your thoughts, and doing deep-breathing exercises. These techniques can help limit spiraling, negative thoughts and ground you in the present. By participating in prosocial activities such as volunteer work, you can also foster a sense of gratitude, avoid pessimistic ruminations, and increase personal satisfaction.
The takeaway
Being a bit higher on the neuroticism scale than others is perfectly fine — think of all the wonderfully neurotic comics who make us laugh — and might even be a good thing. Be proud and confident of your personality traits, even as you’re on the lookout for negative impacts on behavior. If you feel like aspects of your personality are hard to live with, hindering your daily life, or are becoming frustrating, meeting with a therapist can help. Whether you choose in-person, oronline therapy, a licensed therapist can work with you to distinguish problematic behavioral patterns and provide actionable ways you can work on better navigating challenges and problematic thoughts.
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