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The first years of marriage are a critical time in a relationship. In addition to learning more about one another, it is also a time when couples sort out issues about boundaries, expectations, finances, and other concerns.
Generally, the firstcouple years of marriageare the hardest for most couples. Don’t assume because you are deeply in love your problems will just go away. Research suggests that couples who think their marriage will remain as happy as it was right after they wed are less happy in the long run.
Taking steps to protect your relationship both now and in the future can ensure a healthier, happier relationship. This article discusses some top tips for newlyweds regarding the wedding, being together, and communicating effectively.
Advice for NewlywedsBe flexible about your wedding plansLet yourself relax and enjoy your wedding dayBe your own authentic self and let your partner be their true selfBe honestBe willing to compromiseDon’t ask for marriage advice from someone who dislikes your partnerBe understanding and show compassionDon’t use threats of divorce as a way to get what you wantMake time for activities as a coupleDon’t focus on past regretsShow (and tell) your partner that you love them
Advice for Newlyweds
Be flexible about your wedding plansLet yourself relax and enjoy your wedding dayBe your own authentic self and let your partner be their true selfBe honestBe willing to compromiseDon’t ask for marriage advice from someone who dislikes your partnerBe understanding and show compassionDon’t use threats of divorce as a way to get what you wantMake time for activities as a coupleDon’t focus on past regretsShow (and tell) your partner that you love them
Advice to Newlyweds on the Wedding
Before you say “I do,” it can be helpful to follow some advise that might make planning the wedding easier and more successful.
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Advice to Newlyweds on Being Together
It can also be helpful to follow advice on how to be together once the wedding is over and your married life officially begins. Some tips that can help smooth the transition from singlehood to matrimony include:
Advice to Newlyweds on Communication
Communication is key to a healthy relationship. It is important to remember that good communication often takes work. Common advice for newlyweds on how to build these communication skills in their relationship includes:
Even when you’re angry, don’t threaten divorce as a way to ‘win’ the argument or get what you want. It impairs trust and threatens the health of your relationship.
Advice on Keeping the Spark Alive
The honeymoon phase can’t last forever. Even as newlyweds, you can lay a foundation that will help ensure that yourrelationship never gets boring.
A Word From Verywell
Also, remember that you don’t need to wait for problems to arise to considercouples therapy. Talking to a couples counselor can help you strengthen your relationship skills and communicate more effectively. It can be a great way better to understand yourself, your partner, and your marriage.
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2 SourcesVerywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read oureditorial processto learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy.Lavner JA, Karney BR, Bradbury TN.Newlyweds’ optimistic forecasts of their marriage: For better or for worse?.J Fam Psychol. 2013;27(4):531-540. doi:10.1037/a0033423Aron A, Norman CC, Aron EN, McKenna C, Heyman RE.Couples’ shared participation in novel and arousing activities and experienced relationship quality.J Pers Soc Psychol. 2000;78(2):273-284. doi:10.1037/0022-3514.78.2.273
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Verywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read oureditorial processto learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy.Lavner JA, Karney BR, Bradbury TN.Newlyweds’ optimistic forecasts of their marriage: For better or for worse?.J Fam Psychol. 2013;27(4):531-540. doi:10.1037/a0033423Aron A, Norman CC, Aron EN, McKenna C, Heyman RE.Couples’ shared participation in novel and arousing activities and experienced relationship quality.J Pers Soc Psychol. 2000;78(2):273-284. doi:10.1037/0022-3514.78.2.273
Verywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read oureditorial processto learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy.
Lavner JA, Karney BR, Bradbury TN.Newlyweds’ optimistic forecasts of their marriage: For better or for worse?.J Fam Psychol. 2013;27(4):531-540. doi:10.1037/a0033423Aron A, Norman CC, Aron EN, McKenna C, Heyman RE.Couples’ shared participation in novel and arousing activities and experienced relationship quality.J Pers Soc Psychol. 2000;78(2):273-284. doi:10.1037/0022-3514.78.2.273
Lavner JA, Karney BR, Bradbury TN.Newlyweds’ optimistic forecasts of their marriage: For better or for worse?.J Fam Psychol. 2013;27(4):531-540. doi:10.1037/a0033423
Aron A, Norman CC, Aron EN, McKenna C, Heyman RE.Couples’ shared participation in novel and arousing activities and experienced relationship quality.J Pers Soc Psychol. 2000;78(2):273-284. doi:10.1037/0022-3514.78.2.273
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