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Table of Contents:OverviewThe Key to Battling Compassion Fatigue is Awareness
Anxiety DisorderRead Time: 3 Minutes
Published On: August 14, 2015
Updated On: November 3, 2023
Overview
According to theAnxiety and Depression Association of America, approximately 40 million Americans live with anxiety related disorders in United States each year, making anxiety one of the most prevalent mental health issues nationally.
Loving someone with anxiety is not typically something that we talk about in the counseling fieldUsually the focus falls on supporting the person with the anxiety, but people don’t live in isolated vacuums. We have friends, loved ones, colleagues, and a host of other folks with whom we interact on a regular basis. And for people that support a loved one with anxiety, the impact of the disorder can be extremely difficult to deal with.The stress resulting from consistently supporting a loved one can leave you feeling drained and exhausted.Psychologists have coined a term, compassion fatigue, that refers to this concept.For families coping with mental illnesses such as anxiety, a caregiver who is often thinking of the best ways to support their partner can sometimes forget their own self-care. At some point they may feel like their supportive tank is running on empty. They may find themselves increasingly unable to offer the support their partner needs because of their feeling drained.The American Institute of Stress indicates the following as some of the symptoms associated with compassion fatigue:Isolation and loss of moraleSleep disturbanceEmotional intensity increasesCognitive ability decreasesBehavior and judgment impairedLow energy and negative moodLoss of self-worth and emotional modulationIdentity, worldview, and spirituality impactedLoss of hope and meaningIf your partner is dealing with persistent anxiety, compassion fatigue may sneak up on you when you least expect it. You may find yourself exhibiting some of the symptoms mentioned above and it may be difficult to continue supporting your loved one as he or she cope on a day to day basis. If there are other family members who depend on you, like children,it is critical that you take some time to decompress and refuel.
Usually the focus falls on supporting the person with the anxiety, but people don’t live in isolated vacuums. We have friends, loved ones, colleagues, and a host of other folks with whom we interact on a regular basis. And for people that support a loved one with anxiety, the impact of the disorder can be extremely difficult to deal with.
The stress resulting from consistently supporting a loved one can leave you feeling drained and exhausted.Psychologists have coined a term, compassion fatigue, that refers to this concept.
For families coping with mental illnesses such as anxiety, a caregiver who is often thinking of the best ways to support their partner can sometimes forget their own self-care. At some point they may feel like their supportive tank is running on empty. They may find themselves increasingly unable to offer the support their partner needs because of their feeling drained.
The American Institute of Stress indicates the following as some of the symptoms associated with compassion fatigue:
If your partner is dealing with persistent anxiety, compassion fatigue may sneak up on you when you least expect it. You may find yourself exhibiting some of the symptoms mentioned above and it may be difficult to continue supporting your loved one as he or she cope on a day to day basis. If there are other family members who depend on you, like children,it is critical that you take some time to decompress and refuel.
The Key to Battling Compassion Fatigue is AwarenessBeing aware that you’re running on empty can help you take he necessary steps to reassess your own needs. While you do so, you are creating a scenario in which you can be an even more effective support provider for your loved one and your family as a whole. While you should be there to care for your loved one as much as possible, it is just as important that your needs for rest and support are met as well.Persistent anxiety is a pervasive and exhausting condition. Being a supportive caregiver for your loved one can be draining in addition to the other responsibilities that life throws at you.Be mindful of checking in with yourself routinely to avoid compassion fatigue and continue to support your loved one to the best of your ability – anxiety is no one’s friend.
The Key to Battling Compassion Fatigue is Awareness
Being aware that you’re running on empty can help you take he necessary steps to reassess your own needs. While you do so, you are creating a scenario in which you can be an even more effective support provider for your loved one and your family as a whole. While you should be there to care for your loved one as much as possible, it is just as important that your needs for rest and support are met as well.
Persistent anxiety is a pervasive and exhausting condition. Being a supportive caregiver for your loved one can be draining in addition to the other responsibilities that life throws at you.
Be mindful of checking in with yourself routinely to avoid compassion fatigue and continue to support your loved one to the best of your ability – anxiety is no one’s friend.
Liz Campese
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