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Importance of Self-Soothing

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Implementing These Strategies

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When you are upset, it is important to have ways of coping with stress. There are many ways to relieve stress, and among them are what we sometimes call “self-soothing” skills or techniques. These are simple things you can do wherever you’re at and without the help of someone else that canbring calm to your mind and body.

Why Are Self-Soothing Skills Important?

Coping strategies are diverse, just like the people who rely on them. When stress and anxiety hit, it’s a good idea to have a few skills ready to help you find relief.

For example, seeking out social support can be an excellent way of improving your mood. However,symptoms of PTSD, such as unpleasant memories or thoughts about a pasttraumatic event, can sometimes occur unexpectedly. It is times like these when social support may not be readily available.

Therefore, it is important to learn coping strategies that you can do on your own.

Coping strategies are focused on your emotions and are often described asself-soothingorself-carecoping strategies. You may try to involve one or more of the five senses — touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound.

Let’s take a look at some self-soothing techniques you can try for each sense.

The Soothing Aspects of Touch

Your skin is the largest organ in your body and is very sensitive to external stimuli. This makes it a powerful tool for relaxing, unwinding, and finding relief from stress.

Among other things, you might try taking a few minutes to stretch your muscles — or getting a massage. Even taking a few minutes to play with and pet an animal can be amazingly beneficial to your mood.

The Tastes That Can Soothe

While it’s best not to turn to food for comfort all the time, there is something to be said about its effects on mood. Many of us have learned that hunger can lead to irritability, which can impact stress levels as well.

Rather than turning to junk food to make yourself feel better, try sucking on hard candy, slowly melting dark chocolate in your mouth, or sipping a cup of soothing herbal tea. You may also find ease in a comforting meal. Try to include healthy foods, so you maintain a healthy body as well as a healthy mind.

The Refreshing Power of Smell

A number of research studies have looked into the positive benefits of aromatherapy. It is often one of the recommended natural treatments for people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, and problems with sleep.

For instance, one study found that intensive care patients with anxiety slept better after inhaling lavender essential oil.In a meta-analysis of various clinical studies, researchers found that aromas can play a positive role in stress management.

There are many ways you can take advantage of soothing scents. Browsing a flower shop or spending time literally “smelling the roses” in a garden can brighten your mood. Likewise, simply stepping outside and taking a deep breath of fresh air can provide instant stress relief.

Lavender, vanilla, bergamot, and a number of other fragrances have also been proven to reduce stress. You can get these through scented candles, aromatherapy diffusers withessential oils, or a variety of other products.

Take Your Mind off It With Sight

Distractions can be a good thing, particularly when your mind is stuck on your stress triggers. Sometimes it’s best to just find something amusing or interesting to look at.

Many people also find it beneficial to reflect on happy times or hopes and dreams. You might want to look through pictures of your loved ones or a past vacation that was filled with fun and joy. Of course, you can also daydream about places you want to visit. Look for things around you that make you smile and it’s likely the stress will dissipate.

Relax With Sound

A variety of sounds are being promoted for relaxation, such asbinaural beats,white, pink, or brown noise, and so forth. You may enjoy listening to soothing sounds like ocean waves lapping at the beach, rain falling gently, or even a thunderstorm with peels of lightning and rolls of thunder.

You might even trysaying positive statementsto yourself as a verbal form of self-encouragement.

Mindful MomentNeed a breather? Take this free9-minute meditation focused on awakening your senses—or choose from ourguided meditation libraryto find another one that will help you feel your best.

Mindful Moment

Need a breather? Take this free9-minute meditation focused on awakening your senses—or choose from ourguided meditation libraryto find another one that will help you feel your best.

Putting These Strategies to Work

When engaging in these strategies, make sure to focus completely on the task at hand. That is,be mindfulof your senses and what you are experiencing. Anytime you are distracted, simply bring your attention back to what you are doing.

Come up with your own self-soothing strategies that you can do when you are upset. Try to list as many as you can. The more you have at your disposal, the better off you will be in improving your mood when you are experiencing distress.

10 Easy Self-Care Strategies to Help You Manage Stress

4 SourcesVerywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read oureditorial processto learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy.Hussien Ahmed MM, Silpasuwanchai C, Salehzadeh Niksirat K, Ren X.Understanding the role of human senses in interactive meditation. In: Proceedings of the 2017 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems.ACM; 2017. doi:10.1145/3025453.3026000Karadag E, Samancioglu S, Ozden D, Bakir E.Effects of aromatherapy on sleep quality and anxiety of patients.Nurs Crit Care. 2017;22(2):105-112. doi:10.1111/nicc.12198Hur MH, Song JA, Lee J, Lee MS.Aromatherapy for stress reduction in healthy adults: A systematic review and meta-analysis of randomized clinical trials.Maturitas. 2014;79(4):362-369. doi:10.1016/j.maturitas.2014.08.006Witusik A, Pietras T.Music therapy as a complementary form of therapy for mental disorders.Pol Merkur Lekarski. 2019;47(282):240-243.Additional ReadingLinehan M.DBT Skills Training Manual. Second edition. The Guilford Press; 2014.

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Verywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read oureditorial processto learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy.Hussien Ahmed MM, Silpasuwanchai C, Salehzadeh Niksirat K, Ren X.Understanding the role of human senses in interactive meditation. In: Proceedings of the 2017 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems.ACM; 2017. doi:10.1145/3025453.3026000Karadag E, Samancioglu S, Ozden D, Bakir E.Effects of aromatherapy on sleep quality and anxiety of patients.Nurs Crit Care. 2017;22(2):105-112. doi:10.1111/nicc.12198Hur MH, Song JA, Lee J, Lee MS.Aromatherapy for stress reduction in healthy adults: A systematic review and meta-analysis of randomized clinical trials.Maturitas. 2014;79(4):362-369. doi:10.1016/j.maturitas.2014.08.006Witusik A, Pietras T.Music therapy as a complementary form of therapy for mental disorders.Pol Merkur Lekarski. 2019;47(282):240-243.Additional ReadingLinehan M.DBT Skills Training Manual. Second edition. The Guilford Press; 2014.

Verywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read oureditorial processto learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy.

Hussien Ahmed MM, Silpasuwanchai C, Salehzadeh Niksirat K, Ren X.Understanding the role of human senses in interactive meditation. In: Proceedings of the 2017 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems.ACM; 2017. doi:10.1145/3025453.3026000Karadag E, Samancioglu S, Ozden D, Bakir E.Effects of aromatherapy on sleep quality and anxiety of patients.Nurs Crit Care. 2017;22(2):105-112. doi:10.1111/nicc.12198Hur MH, Song JA, Lee J, Lee MS.Aromatherapy for stress reduction in healthy adults: A systematic review and meta-analysis of randomized clinical trials.Maturitas. 2014;79(4):362-369. doi:10.1016/j.maturitas.2014.08.006Witusik A, Pietras T.Music therapy as a complementary form of therapy for mental disorders.Pol Merkur Lekarski. 2019;47(282):240-243.

Hussien Ahmed MM, Silpasuwanchai C, Salehzadeh Niksirat K, Ren X.Understanding the role of human senses in interactive meditation. In: Proceedings of the 2017 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems.ACM; 2017. doi:10.1145/3025453.3026000

Karadag E, Samancioglu S, Ozden D, Bakir E.Effects of aromatherapy on sleep quality and anxiety of patients.Nurs Crit Care. 2017;22(2):105-112. doi:10.1111/nicc.12198

Hur MH, Song JA, Lee J, Lee MS.Aromatherapy for stress reduction in healthy adults: A systematic review and meta-analysis of randomized clinical trials.Maturitas. 2014;79(4):362-369. doi:10.1016/j.maturitas.2014.08.006

Witusik A, Pietras T.Music therapy as a complementary form of therapy for mental disorders.Pol Merkur Lekarski. 2019;47(282):240-243.

Linehan M.DBT Skills Training Manual. Second edition. The Guilford Press; 2014.

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