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Should I Tell My Employer?

Talking About Mental Health at Work

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Managing our mental health struggles is tough as it is. And it can become more difficult to keep up with work duties, among any other responsibilities on our plate.

While these aren’t always easy conversations to have, it may be helpful to talk to our employer about our struggles so that we can partner with our boss, co-workers, direct reports, or human resources department to find solutions that help us feel better and take greater control of our mental health.

At a GlanceLeaving our mental health challenges at the door is a struggle. But bringing them to work while juggling our other duties is no easy feat either. Disclosing your mental health challenges isn’t easy; we get it. There is still a potential stigma, a fear of how we’ll be perceived, and things to consider with our boss and employer. But being direct and clear about the type of support or accommodations you need to do your best job can show your commitment to the role and help you in the long run.

At a Glance

Leaving our mental health challenges at the door is a struggle. But bringing them to work while juggling our other duties is no easy feat either. Disclosing your mental health challenges isn’t easy; we get it. There is still a potential stigma, a fear of how we’ll be perceived, and things to consider with our boss and employer. But being direct and clear about the type of support or accommodations you need to do your best job can show your commitment to the role and help you in the long run.

There are a variety of things to consider if you’re thinking about talking to your employer about your mental health challenges.

We may need to navigate these discussions differently depending on the circumstances. Factors that impact the decision to disclose or conceal mental health challenges may include:

When struggling with mental health, it can even be difficult to think clearly, so it helps to really spend time considering a proper course of action.

A 2015 study looked into how people manage their mental health information at work. This research found that men, people participating in supported employment programs, recipients ofdisability benefits, people with a thorough knowledge of applicable legislation, those with fewer negative experiences regarding stigma, and people who report more severe illness were increasingly likely to disclose mental health challenges at their workplace.

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Talking to people at our workplace about mental health challenges can feel particularly overwhelming, but it can also be beneficial in the long run. There are productive approaches we can take to be more open with our employer about the mental health challenges we’re working through.

A 2017 journal article based on a qualitative research study found that people with mental health concerns had to navigate thestigma of mental illnesswhile managing their symptoms to maintain their work performance.

Given these challenges, it can be helpful to think critically about how to effectively approach discussions of mental health in the workplace.

“For people who have made the decision to speak openly at work about mental health, planning is key.” says psychotherapistHaley Neidich, LCSW. “It’s important to know and rehearse not only exactly what you’re comfortable disclosing, but to talk through with a trusted friend or family member what the various responses might be and how you’d like to address those.”

Neidich says that the best approach can often be a direct one, wherein we are not overly emotional and share only relevant information. It may help to tailor our discussion to our audience.

Talking With Our Boss

It can feel intimidating to talk to our boss regarding challenges with mental health, especially when we rely on our jobs for an income to survive.

This insight aligns well with the evidence from a 2020 journal article based on focus groups with people with mental health concerns, human resources practitioners, employers, accommodations professionals, and advocates.

This research found that people benefitted from considering who they should share their mental health challenges with, as well as the content, timing, and communication style used in their disclosure.

While it may not be something we usually bring up in an interview for a new role, Neidich recommends that being clear about the type of support we need to do our best job can demonstrate commitment once settled into the role.

Speaking With Direct Reports

When speaking with the employees we supervise directly, it can be useful to think about exactly what they need to know to complete their responsibilities and how our mental health may impact them.

If anything, being open with those who report to us may just encourage more dialogue about our team’s mental health and foster a healthier working relationship.

While colleagues may not need to know about our mental health challenges to do their jobs well, sharing concerns may yield much-needed support.

“I think that more people should be speaking openly in the workplace about their mental health issues, but there’s not any guidance on specifically how to do this,” Neidich says. Due to this lack of guidance, it’s normal to feel nervous when thinking about talking about your struggles at work.

It may help to keep these actionable recommendations in mind when navigating discussions about our mental health challenges in the workplace.

Do

Neidich recommends verbalizing your motivation and dedication to the job. “Make it clear to your boss that you take your job seriously and enlist their help in problem-solving how to get you back to a place where you’re feeling comfortable and confident with your responsibilities,” she says.

Don’t

There are valid reasons for hesitating to talk about mental health in the workplace. Should you feel comfortable making this disclosure, planning ahead may be beneficial, as may getting support from friends, family members, or co-workers that you trust.

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4 SourcesVerywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read oureditorial processto learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy.Grice T, Alcock K, Scior K.Factors associated with mental health disclosure outside of the workplace: A systematic literature review.Stigma Health. 2018;3(2):116-130. doi:10.1037/sah0000079Hielscher E, Waghorn G.Managing disclosure of personal information: An opportunity to enhance supported employment.Psychiatr Rehabil J. 2015;38(4):306-313. doi:10.1037/prj0000127Elraz H.Identity, mental health and work: How employees with mental health conditions recount stigma and the pejorative discourse of mental illness.Human Relations. 2017;71(5):722-741. doi:10.1177/0018726717716752Brouwers E, Joosen M, van Zelst C, Van Weeghel J.To disclose or not to disclose: A multi-stakeholder focus group study on mental health issues in the work environment.J Occup Rehabil. 2019;30(1):84-92. doi:10.1007/s10926-019-09848-z

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Verywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read oureditorial processto learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy.Grice T, Alcock K, Scior K.Factors associated with mental health disclosure outside of the workplace: A systematic literature review.Stigma Health. 2018;3(2):116-130. doi:10.1037/sah0000079Hielscher E, Waghorn G.Managing disclosure of personal information: An opportunity to enhance supported employment.Psychiatr Rehabil J. 2015;38(4):306-313. doi:10.1037/prj0000127Elraz H.Identity, mental health and work: How employees with mental health conditions recount stigma and the pejorative discourse of mental illness.Human Relations. 2017;71(5):722-741. doi:10.1177/0018726717716752Brouwers E, Joosen M, van Zelst C, Van Weeghel J.To disclose or not to disclose: A multi-stakeholder focus group study on mental health issues in the work environment.J Occup Rehabil. 2019;30(1):84-92. doi:10.1007/s10926-019-09848-z

Verywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read oureditorial processto learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy.

Grice T, Alcock K, Scior K.Factors associated with mental health disclosure outside of the workplace: A systematic literature review.Stigma Health. 2018;3(2):116-130. doi:10.1037/sah0000079Hielscher E, Waghorn G.Managing disclosure of personal information: An opportunity to enhance supported employment.Psychiatr Rehabil J. 2015;38(4):306-313. doi:10.1037/prj0000127Elraz H.Identity, mental health and work: How employees with mental health conditions recount stigma and the pejorative discourse of mental illness.Human Relations. 2017;71(5):722-741. doi:10.1177/0018726717716752Brouwers E, Joosen M, van Zelst C, Van Weeghel J.To disclose or not to disclose: A multi-stakeholder focus group study on mental health issues in the work environment.J Occup Rehabil. 2019;30(1):84-92. doi:10.1007/s10926-019-09848-z

Grice T, Alcock K, Scior K.Factors associated with mental health disclosure outside of the workplace: A systematic literature review.Stigma Health. 2018;3(2):116-130. doi:10.1037/sah0000079

Hielscher E, Waghorn G.Managing disclosure of personal information: An opportunity to enhance supported employment.Psychiatr Rehabil J. 2015;38(4):306-313. doi:10.1037/prj0000127

Elraz H.Identity, mental health and work: How employees with mental health conditions recount stigma and the pejorative discourse of mental illness.Human Relations. 2017;71(5):722-741. doi:10.1177/0018726717716752

Brouwers E, Joosen M, van Zelst C, Van Weeghel J.To disclose or not to disclose: A multi-stakeholder focus group study on mental health issues in the work environment.J Occup Rehabil. 2019;30(1):84-92. doi:10.1007/s10926-019-09848-z

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